Whatever the case, their love life led many people around them to believe that they were soulmates and that their love was made in heaven. For me, I was blesse dot have been there when it all happened ( I’m from L.A. What do I have to do? I had an office in town and they kept bugging me to come over. When he came out, he assumed that she was asleep. Seems like it takes much courage and heart to do so. Layne’s father could have been that positive influence, but he only helped drive Layne to an early grave. “So anyways, yesterday I ran into so-and-so and blah blah blah. It seems that Demri and Layne took pleasure in hurting one another until it got to be too much. Demri and Rosheen loved each other very much and I loved them both. Layne and Demri were certainly worth knowing and there is so little about them out there. I’m very thankful for my daughter because for the first time I had to clean up and start to deal with things. Speaking during a February 2010 episode of Loveline, Mike said, "I was with him all that day on my birthday trying to keep him alive. Which is correct?? Same symptoms. According to Guitar World, in 1997, Layne Staley, using the entity the Larusta Trust (Layne often used the fake name John Larusta in his business dealings, perhaps as a reference to the Alice in Chains' classic "Rooster"), purchased an apartment in Seattle's bustling University District. Question: Did Demri ever drive a car? Age at death: 27 years old Yes, she was sick from herion, but so was Marilyn. Go to you tube, type in temple of the dog off ramp cafe. I have the second version and it was at the bookstore and we got it for like $20 or so. Demri Lara Parrott, 27, of Bremerton died Oct. 29, 1996, at Evergreen Hospital in Kirkland. At that point, once the pig valve is in place, and so many surgeries, and pain, she continues to go for the drugs to soothe and medicate her misery. What a beautiful comment. Demri Lara Parrott Murphy (February 22nd 1969 - October 29th 1996) was an American model, artist, and muse, and an amateur actress, girlfriend and later fiancee of Alice in Chains singer Layne Staley.Demri was born in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, in the United States of America's Pacific Northwest. – Barbara Demri, Layne said, appeared to him before his death, so maybe he wasn’t so alone. Demri Parrott (Layne Staley girlfriend - late vocalist of Alice In Chains) died on October 29, 1996.The author of the band's biography, Alice in Chains: The Untold Story, David de Sola, shared some information about the marriage that never happened between Layne and Demri, and how they were planning the place where they intended to get married - which later would be a place where a very . Sean was an alcoholic and Mike Starr was a drug addict. Thank you so much for sharing your stories. Ill try to sum this up as much as i can. On the slim chance you ever read this, just know that even in 2017 there are people who still cherish the GOOD memories of that time, way back in the day when “grunge” was still in it’s innocence…to this day I get chills listening to AiC, Soundgarden, Mother Love Bone. Especially if you’re their parents, siblings or children. That said, the people who saw him deep into his addiction claimed that while Staley looked terrible physically, he was often the same smiling, lighthearted guy they remember. Most heroin addicts who manage to get clean.. will also eventually relapse. Or did others drive her to where she needed to go? Although Demri passed anyway, her mother remembers her fondly and without regret or anger. I can’t get it to paste & post, but at least the other two are still here… However so. Then she moved in with Layne because she had nowhere else to go. She was so young, so beautiful… the tragic muse, a fairy. I was devastated when I found out that I missed it. Hope I’m making sense. Dope sick hurts the entire body.". Cotton Fever isn’t from dirty cotton it’s from injecting a microscopic piece when you suction up the heroin thru it. Blessings from Iceland. 1). Layne not accepting this, but he’s starting to feel the pain also. Did you hear this new record by this band?” And I loved it—I thought it was so cute. It is a familiar tale but one that just can’t penetrate the young minds. Valley St. or Roy. Demri has haunted me on a regular almost daily basis since I first learned about her story. and this: watch?v=LL29f0AehNI JAMES BURDYSHAW Demri had started lookin’ kinda ragged for a young person. There's a trope that rock stars overindulging in bad behavior and harmful drugs "think they'll live forever." Great work and it happens faster than you know and very few actually survive this mistake. Joseph Tinnelly- Controversy, Why He Left Hell’s Kitchen, Where Is He? She turned really different, and believe me when I say that she was not truly the person that she was becoming. Im trying to post a comment and a link to a video, but all that . Its even worse when you have a lot of responsibilities to take care of because you find yourself stuck to where you have to keep using to try and keep up with those responsibilities and it works at first but it tricks you and then you loose everything if you dont loose your life. I have wanted the book for years, but could not see me spending $200+ for a paperback book. I wouldnt call her suicidal but definitely self destructive. I went through and read all the Layne/Demri parts when I first got the book, too. to make him jealous. So go to youtube and search for this: Buy photos from select Flickr photographers Addicts in your life should never be seen as selfish assholes.. most are actually just broken and sad and while they may come off as being selfish because they won’t get clean for you… most are  just not equipped to know HOW to get clean or are too scared to try. He is still my favorite singer of all time to this day; that will never change I don’t think. She was very sure of herself and this was apparently the cause of some of her problems with Layne. Layne picked it out for her because of the gardens. In turn, Silver called Staley’s mother, Nancy McCallum who called 911. Layne apparently adored her; he would never talk badly about her and apparently it was the same with her. Seattle Music. Oct 21, 2022 0 Layne Staley had a heart as huge as his voice as did his fiance, Demri. He loved Oscar, his sister’s baby. Or did he just appear that way because of being really thin and probably feeling sick a lot? As for the book both Mike and Layne told me they wanted to sue her because it was full of lies. Today. Marilyn Monroe. Nancy was even working in a treatment center the day Staley died — and it was her intervention that led the police to find the singer's body. Nonetheless, there are other claims that Demri and her ex met at a party and it was love at first sight. You did so much for them. Met Toby the Serial Killer Board Game guy in a regular looking apartment. Age has shown me that it´s probably good that I didn´t, as I´ve never had any sort of chemical dependancy nor drug habits, and been overall successful in my life. Hopefully be a soulful powerhouse like him. I also have been a person who had/has major responsibilities and grew up in a household where I was the adult and my parents were the kids and I started numbing myself and on the “slow suicide”. You need to get well. Demri Parrott Photos, News and Videos, Trivia and Quotes - FamousFix You’re in my thoughts and prayers. One night he and his father were shooting heroin together and his father OD’ed. Anniversary of Dem’s passing & a note from her Mom, Darin Lamb – One of Layne Staley’s Best Friends. “Stop!! Instead, the Alice in Chains singer later began withdrawing from public spaces but was able to avail himself at the 1997 Grammy Awards and a few other appearances. Barbara couldn’t answer that either, and I thank her for her response on a previous post. She is proud of us the same way we are proud of her, and she loves us as we love her. So did Layne’s fame, which Demri felt sucked into, although she always tried to maintain her own identity away from Layne. What a true tragedy heroin addiction is. Trying to make this world we live in better for everyone. Johnny was a Godsent to Layne. …She was of Native American (Cherokee), Irish, Scottish, Welsh, English, and Swiss-German descent. I first heard nutshell about a year ago and had to find the source of that sound.It was here that I found AIC + the voice of Layne. End of june..i start getting sick again. Layne was like no other. Thank you, I know you may not get the chance to answer this…. It has been very therapeutic for me over the years and it has helped to keep Demri’s memory alive and has introduced her name to so many who never knew who she was which was my original goal. May the heavens help you beat this cancer! Most of us refused to turn someone on for the first time. All the sources for the information I’ve obtained are from her friends or family, so I trust them. People don’t seem to understand how much Demri suffered the last 2-1/2 years of her life spent mostly in hospital several times on life support given hours to live or that she didn’t complain and was always more concerned about others than herself. Alice in Chains: The Untold Story - Guitar World I just try to console people.") Apparently people would say “Hey, are you Layne Staley’s girlfriend?” and she’d say “No, I’m Demri.” She also refused to take Layne’s money, and had to make her own money herself. Im a long time AIC fan and think Layne was the most underrated ARTIST of our time. I know this because Layne called me to make sure I was checking on her so I was around a lot. That was her. She had been in and out of the hospital a lot, and I am sure her mother did everything she could to help her. and Layne almost backed out then, but the others talked him into it. I read it within days. OK, I’ll stop now; I just wanted to write that to someone who understands, so thank you if you read this rambling mess. They were very discreet about it. There are records showing that she prostituted in her last years, however I’m not sure that her family want this discussed. I tried to tell myself its all in my head and that it would get better but no matter what the drug strips you of your ability to compromise and feelings about how things affect others. "I'm not doing well. Why didn’t she stay home with her Mom when Layne wasn’t around? Demri Parrott was former ex-girlfriend of singer Layne Staley from Alice in Chains. Makes me wonder about the beautiful pictures of Demri above, I’d love to know when they were taken. But not anymore. The photo of Demri on the couch in lingerie is at my apt on Queen Anne, the one Andy died at. She was perfect just the way she was…, Demri could pull of any look and this picture is a great example of her versatility as a model. Demri Lara Parrot | Flickr ), Jerry was totally dogging out then. How does one know which ones will get stuck there and get in the grips of addiction? One of his friends told him that he’d had an image of Layne trapped in an airplane as it filled with smoke (what a thing to say!) You were like a mom to them,making sure they were eating and breathing. Demri Parrott died in 1996 at the age of 27 and it also contributed to the death of her former boyfriend, Layne Staley The American model and actress had issues of drug abuse, was homeless at the time, and it is also alleged that she may have introduced Layne to drugs The saddest thing about Demri’s family is that there were 4 children and now there is only 1 left. I got an error…to be continued, First I would like to thank you for this site. Mike Starr. Truly a loving person. I was a weird kid because I liked all different types of music that kids my age didn’t like because it was considered uncool. Anyway, once Demri died it was all over him because she “knew” him. However, I found that things that boost your confidence and self esteem help you stay away from it. Friends report that she was incredibly skinny and her face was sunken in during this time. Once Kurt gave Layne a ride somewhere and talked about his daughter Frances and Layne said that he was so excited about her. But I’m glad that Demri existed, she was special and brightened the lives of many of those around her – special enough that we still talk about her and admire her beauty 24 years after her death. Addiction is no joke, I go to med school so I spend a lot of time in the hospital and it’s just awful what being addicted to something does to people. It’s been lonely here without him. Laura. He went into rehab after that. I can see where someone would think it was her if they did not know her personally.. you know how you could pick out your best friends from just a shadow or the back of their head well that is how I am as well and that is not her. Are there any photos of Demri during the last year of her life? I know that he was at Jerry’s ’98 Halloween concert, and had thought about making an appearance there. Ughhh, what’s the need? That all makes total sense. This blog says everything I wanted to say! But she went one way for love, he another. I don’t know anything about him other than that he dumped her at the Emergency Room and disappeared. I just was smitten with Xana. On 5 April 2002, 4 years after the death of Parrot, Layne died of an overdose in his home. It might have been here. It sounds far fetched but then thinking that we just turn off like a light bulb is also way too hard for me to accept. Not Demri, sorry. . I’m her age, a Seattle native and recently lost my sister to heroin. I’ve always thought you were such an exotic beauty. His mother was quoted in “Grunge is Dead” as saying that he bought another condo in ’94, but I dunno. Demri was staying with a friends Dad trying to kick by the time I got out so she could come stay at my parents while I recovered from surgery and she had to be clean to do that. History has proven that young people experiment without clearly thinking of their mortality. 2 of Kathleen’s patients told her about this weird thing that happened (he had done the same thing). Why don’t you read my other posts? No problem. I can understand as well as empathize with Layne, Demri, and all addicts that have been seduced by a drug that seems so good at first. Many people looked after her, while Layne was on tour. Barbara, She could’ve been so much more, it’s a shame. God Bless your sobriety! I watched so many people either die or just become such a broken mess they probably wish they were dead. And Layne tried it, and he said that was the first time he really thanked God. As I approach the 10year anniversary of the day I came home from work ( I bartended at Linda’s the iconic dive bar on Seattle’s Capitol Hill) and discovered my sister dead in our apartment on Denny Ave N. Nobody can understand what a loss of a beloved can take from those left behind if they haven’t been there. Drugs was his escape to find what he was longing for…love. But, how did it happen? Demri Lara Parrott's death in 1996 caused Staley to experience severe depression, and he was placed under 24-hour suicide watch, according to NME. Quite a few wrongs have been righted by the existence of this site, the amount of BS out there about these individuals is beyond belief. I would love to read more about this era and i know there is alot of crap out there but in your opinion which book written about that time in history on AIC and even mentioning Demri would you think is the most accurate?? He was always fighting someone else’s battle when he thought he had his beat. Love you Barb, I totally agree and share the love and respect… I am a recovering addict…this month I got my 6yr 6mo clean time!!! Demri Parrott, former GF of Layne Staley - Findadeath Forum I am not strong enough to deal with addicts bullshit anymore. You are brave and strong and you do all Demri’s fans a favor telling us about her and running this site. From then on, he said, he just wanted to do art and make music for his friends. Also, you mentioned the pain she was in, & how her mother, Kathleen tried so much to help. Need to search harder for the better ones. If memory serves, her mother was a counselor while Demri was alive. I could not have put it better….Recovering addict myself. They can seduce you and make you feel like nothing else can be as good to you. I respect that. I personally haven’t lost any friend such at young age, and the pain all of you guys who new Demri and were their family and friends are having, I think I will never imagine it. No clue.. maybe they didn’t even know Rosheen was as important as she was to Demri. Opiate Addiction is selfish to the core. So crazy cool and I know you’d agree…or I wouldnt of told my stories or shared your pictures. As a mother, I cannot imagine losing any of my kids. I was talking with her daily. Scan this QR code to download the app now. I remember also reading that Layne took Andy’s death badly. What a wonderful site and tribute to Layne and Demri. My hope is people considering trying heroin or opiates in general just one time will read your story and Demri’s story and think twice. Layne and Demri in the Sea of Sorrow video. The frontman's ex-fiance passed away because of a drug overdose on October 29, 1996, at Evergreen Hospital in Kirkland, Washington. Rosheen was clean at the time and doing awesome.. but then she relapsed and on June 19th 1997 she passed away…she was only 22 years old. ", Nancy makes a specific point of mentioning that although her son had become withdrawn from the public, he was available for those close to him. Felt a little CRAZY. But, success is no good, if they’re not here. watch?v=dBZm-_6Qa3k I'd much rather have him alive and not talking to me than to have lost such a great human being [...] a great friend. We got along at first. She was then buried at the Miller-Woodlawn Park in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington. Every so often, you'd see that little glimmer.". Layne tried it, loved it. As such, it might not surprise some to learn that Layne Staley was actually planning to record guest vocals on a song with alternative metallers Taproot for their 2002 album Welcome. When someone you care about turns blue and stops breathing… that will mess with you forever. I can’t put my finger on it, but it wasnt what I wanted out of a $200 book. JOHNNY BACOLAS I found out Layne was on heroin after the Van Halen tour in ’91. One of his more moronic friends told me that he had actually died, but what little I did get from Layne told me this wasn’t true. Anyone of her friends would have given her money to buy cotten besides its free at the hospital and they do send you home with a ton of supplies and she was there a lot. Views: 0. She did her movies, needed a babysitter for many, but she got through it all. So, anyway, the point to me leaving a comment is to say that I just read “Layne Staley, Born again” by Adriana Rubio. His death was ruled accidental. But when people are addicted to heroin, they have to want to stop or you can’t really help them. What a joyful presence she must have been, all the while carrying and apparently, practising some horrible habits. her relationship with Layne Staley, the singer of rock band Alice in Chains. It’s just heartbreaking and I believe this site will help people not to ever get into it and this site and your efforts are saving countless people from such a sad fate. Not trying to get anything out of you, no anger, but if what you say is true, and I believe you, Rosheen would’ve passed in April 1998. I know I will personally miss Demri as long as I live… but today marks the day that Demri was taken from us ALL forever. That’s what all 4 of my friends whose lifes are over would tell you all who are hear reading this. Mrs. Austin, you tell of how Demri suffered, how she had gifts, it was her calling in life to teach and not to learn and to give unconditional love to all, yet you put her grandmother and the headstone that she made for Demri, down. Demri Parrott - Facebook Dear Barbara, When Layne didn’t feel like eating Johnny could get him to drink an Ensure sometimes 2 or 3. All rights reserved. Photos. Wish me luck xxx. Demri's obituary. I think of her all the time, and how our similarities made me feel so much better about myself as a teenager. They didnt want people to be too scared to call them. on drugs. Added 3 days ago by 90sgrungegirls. But god, if he isn’t just a little gratified also. Much love to you. Sometimes, we forget that they are people too. She seemed to have style that was individual in fashion and photography. Just some random thoughts I had. From that arose the Layne Staley Memorial Fund, a way to help those dealing with addiction to pay for treatment services. Thank you for this wonderful website. beautiful post, beautiful website and beautiful comment thread . Self: 1991 MTV Video Music Awards. I know he did get an infection because of his very, very stupid way of not looking after things. Who Was With Demri Parrott When She Died? - FAQS Clear We tried to before but couldn’t really connect with Nancy- too much focus on Layne’s addiction and Heroin, and y’know there was a lot more to those times than just that. Everybody had their problems, not just Layne. I really appreciate this site. Actually I was bothered by it though. If I had been in that same situation, my own mother, who I love dearly, would not have been so loving. Oh that thing about walking down a hall and druggies is b.s. I am here to support if I can but a simple chat is as far as I’ll go. I don’t know where he went though, and even the people who he rented from thought he was still living there. What a cute smile! That being said im not a crazed obsessed fan but I am aware of Demri and read her story through Barbara and Darin about 10 years ago right after my heroin addiction started. Cornell said Layne came up the stairs to the apartment and was crying and nobody got up and gave him a hug and now he wished he’d have done that. Then I went back to Houston, where I was working at a nightclub, and the phone rang in the office. I understand that Jerry started doing cocaine again around this time. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. I'm telling you: Demri was here last night. Thanks for setting the record when it needs to be…………K”, COMMENT LEFT ON ORIGINAL POST: DARIN LAMBS GUEST POST – ONE OF LAYNE AND DEMRIS BEST FRIENDS AND MY EX-BOYFRIEND, “On this anniversary of Dem’s passing I just want to thank all of you especially you Barbara, Darin and Fabiola for making these bittersweet days a little brighter….when I am aching and missing her I can come here…, .Perhaps my niece will write about Dem’s life it seems some folks are interested….but I’ll need you guys for those times….we were so close as you know…the misinformation and assumptions out there just doesn’t get it…thanks for truth…love you kathleen”, COMMENT LEFT ON ORIGINAL POST: DARIN’S GUEST POST – COMMENTS. I actually edited my response so I hope you got to read the whole comment I made. Hope you write that book about the two of them and/or those times! I wish you were still here with us. What happened with that book, he had a really good chronological order of things.